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MIND CONTROL

Lama saya gak nulis dan banyak hal terjadi. To the point ya, pernah denger tentang Anger Management?
The term anger management commonly refers to a system of psychological therapeutic techniques and exercises by which someone with excessive or uncontrollable anger and aggression can control or reduce the triggers, degrees, and effects of an angered emotional state. --wikipedia
Intinya sih tentang bagaimana cara kita mengendalikan emosi (dalam hal ini amarah). Nah, as I know about myself ya. Saya paling susah mengendalikan amarah. Issues came out and i would blow out. Itu ada bagus dan jeleknya sih. Bagusnya saya jadi gak pendendam tapi jeleknya ya itu tadi pengendalian diri saya rendah.

Tapi saya perhatikan akhir2 ini, saya terlalu toleran. Ada banyak hal yang bisa bikin saya kecewa atau marah, potentially can make me throw tantrum here and there tapi saya diam saja dan senyum2.

Ada teman yang bilang,"Age is not just a number, it can turn you into the more mature person."
Dan saya ketawa, "Oh are u sure my dear friend? I am very afraid if i will explode all of my anger in terrible way since i keep bottling up inside."

 Anyways,keliatannya bener ya, pola pikir kita bisa berubah seiring bertambahnya umur. Semoga kita menjadi pribadi yang lebih baik sajalah. :))
Eerrr, you know, the thought of growing up suddenly freaks me out a little. NOO!!!


PS : Long time no see,Blogger? Hope you doing well... ---shamelessblogger
 
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  1. deadyrizky27 Maret 2013 pukul 11.19

    keknya emang aku gak pernah lihat deh seorang Rizky marah".

    Iya nih, riz. Aku ini dikenal banyak orang sebagai orang jarang marah. Padahal, ya emang kalo aku lagi marah ya pengennya sendiri aja. Konsekuensinya ke makanan. Atau shopping. Oh screw me

    BalasHapus
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    1. Rizki Wulandari27 Maret 2013 pukul 11.41

      Haduh jangan sampe deh liat aku marah2...
      Dulu pelariannya sempet nyinyir di twitter. Amit2 lame banget itu.
      Sekarang ya cukup narik napas dalem2... Wudu juga ngebantu (setelah ngedumel2 di toilet,hahaa)
      Gapapa. Tendencies seneng pasti itu.

      PS : Oh yes, congrats for your upcoming wedding!! May Allah bless you both!!! :)))

      Hapus
  2. Amela3 April 2013 pukul 15.52

    Ternyata dah apdet, kapan hari bolak balik ke sini ceritanya masih nature issues,,

    malah bagus toh kalau ga gampang meledak di sana sini,, tapi ya itu peernya: pastikan kamu ga numpuk itu semua cuma buat di'muntah'in kapan2 dengan ledakan yang lebih heboh aja..

    *gampang ngomongnya, susah prakteknya

    BalasHapus
  3. Anonim4 Juni 2013 pukul 03.52

    heningwahyudi@gmail.com


    Wasallam,

    Tulisannya bagus, mak Cik.
    Sering nulis,ya.
    Daku penggemar-diam-diam tulisan mak Cik ,nih.

    BalasHapus
  4. doni18 Juli 2015 pukul 20.43

    trimakasih infonya sangat menarik,,
    bermanfaat sekali,,
    mantap,,

    BalasHapus

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